Saturday, January 17, 2009

Men Are Clueless.... (Rant)

Hi Y'all!! First I have a RANT! My bf kinda sucks. He's not being extra "loving, caring, or considerate" during my "time of need". He's actually acting annoyed b/c I haven't been hanging out with him this week. I went over to his house Friday. I expected a hug & kiss, got nothing, so I kinda waited around, then later he said "where's my hug & kiss, so it's like that now". I was like "no, I'm the bereaved, you should be giving me a big & kiss. We couldn't go anywhere b/c he was on call and it was like 1 degree last night so there was a good chance of him having to go work. So were talking about stuff. I started to get depressed. My mom called and said how everyone was in Queens at Aunt Jean's & Lo's apt. That made me more depressed that I was in CT at my boyfriend house watching him lay on the couch in the room WITH NO TV. More depressing.I kinda needed a distraction so I wouldn't be dwelling on my Mommy Cat being gone.. He could of made me dinner or we could of made dinner together. We could of rented a movie. He did nothing but lay there and make me feel lonely & Depressed! It was around 8pm and a little too late to drive to Queens & back. So I did an awful thing........ Don't judge me. I texted my girl "C" and asked her what she was up to & that I was feeling depressed at the bf's house. So we made plans to meet up. I told the bf, that "I was going to Queens to be w/ my family", picked up my sh!t and biz-ounced! Well what was I going to say "you suck, being around you is depressing me, I'm leaving. So I met up with "C" and we went to a Bar/Resturant called Two Steps . That was fun we ordered some drinks and pigged out on their fresh made tortilla chips & homemade salsa. There really wasn't a scene there so we went to a local Sports Bar called Pippa ("C" is single), to see if more was happening there. (best bar food in CT!), We had some more drinks and she ordered the most amazing shot!!! An Oatmeal Cookie Shot. It tastes like a freakin' oatmeal cookie, but liquid in a shot glass Here's the recipie:
Oatmeal Cookie recipe
1/5 shot Jagermeister® herbal liqueur
1/5 shot Goldschlager® cinnamon schnapps
1/5 shot Bacardi® 151 rum
1/5 shot Kahlua® coffee liqueur
1/5 shot Bailey's® Irish cream

We hung around and went home. But that's what I needed a caring friend "C" to go do stuff and distract me........... I ♥ "C". Thank GOD for girlfriends, b/c my bf is useless in this "situation".........

I'll be back later sweeties!!! I got something Hello Kitty today, na na na na na NA!!!! (no it's not the MAC Collection........
XoXo

3 ♥Say Something♥:

CurvyGurl ♥ said...

Hey, Kendall. So sorry to hear about your kitty (ok, that sounds strange but you know what I mean...lol). Girl, hate to tell ya but guys remain clueless, so don't worry about it. You can teach them some things, but others aren't worth the hassle. Glad you got your fin aid issue straightened out :).

paperdollrevenge said...

I just hope your bf doesn't read your blog! hehe

Yeah...guys can be such clueless or emotionally/tlc lazy mofos sometimes...thank goodness for girlfriends! Your girls will always understand and C is a good friend to go out with you and keep you company & distracted in a good way when you need it. =)

That Oatmeal Cookie Shot sounds delicious!

supervillain said...

Girl, you have every right to go out and have some fun to get your mind off things. The bar at the Beverly Center makes oatmeal cookie shots. They're good! Hope every thing's going as smoothly as possible.
Oh and Olive Garden has good salad and seafood alfredo. =) xoxo